Emotional Failure, does that really exist....

It's long since I had been looking in for a proper definition, but somehow out of the various answers I have received, (Well to be honest often not received, rather perceived) I realized that people have many different ways of explaining what it feels like being a failure, the pains, the grief’s, the late realizations, etc. But I guess the question stayed unanswered.
I have come across people who said, "Emotional Failure - well it's just a part of life, u need to come across it to enjoy the better side of life as well”. While again others said "What the fuck is this Emotional Failure, I have never seen it ever in my life. It's just the hard work that you need to do to neglect it.”
There are various levels and types of emotional failure. Suffering from a fear of social contact, fear of speaking in public, fear of failure, general states of anxiety, speech impediments, phobias, shyness, contact problems, stress, and similar symptoms are typically some of those.Infact it has often been realized that the emotional failure does lead to other failures as well, failure of commitments, failure of mutual trust and lot more. Again Emotional Failure is not always a cause of grief, think of the innumerable number of couple that breaks up, just because of their emotional rift, and infact happily accept that, for the failure of their relation helps them attain peace. The simplest definition of an "Emotional Failure", rather any failure , that I have found people saying is nothing but the inability to achieve what was expected to be achieved.
Somehow I feel that "Emotional Failure" is infact "giving us a little more time". We always want to partner with people and not be a supporter or dependant and on this urge of having a true partnership with people, we never leave aside the "I" factor, after all at the end of the day we all see our own needs. How many of us try to work out a single partnership which we ourselves are not comfortable with, seems like we hate the idea of just stepping out of our emotional comfort zone.
Knowledge has the perishable nature and it needs to be updated every other day but yes-emotional strength is not, infact it does get updated and grows stronger with time. More we start clinging onto it more it gets us clawed, leading to emotional stress, and of course emotional failure at the end. So we all need to be a bit more proactive, move that one extra inch towards each other so as to help ourselves out from what they call an Emotional Failure.
Expecting a few ideas from your end as well...
See you soon.

Another Day In Paradise.........

It took some time for me to think as to how and what I should be writing in my first posting. You must understand after all the first impression does matter, I am not much concerned about what others think of my article, cause rarely shall I know the people who perhaps goes through my postings, if at all anybody does goes through this in the first place. What I'm more concerned is infact the idea of making myself feel good when I go through this posting sometime down the line. It's just my frenzy idea of doing something, that I felt like doing, nd somehow it needed a great amount of energy to break the claws of lathergy that tend to overpower me now and often. I feel I would like share with you a common story, which I felt carries some substance.
This is a story about four people named Everybody, Somebody, Anybody and Nobody. There was an important job to be done and Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it. Anybody could have done it. But Nobody did it. Somebody got angry about that because it was Everybody’s job. Everybody thought Anybody could do it. But Nobody realised that Everbody wouldn't do it. It ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody when Nobody did what Anybody could have done.
Most of us start working and thinking in the same line that our society forces, rather teaches us to be. We have so many problems all around us, and fortunately for us not all are to be deciphered as well, but somehow at the end of the day, inspite of the terrible blunders we do, inspite of the mean sentiments we see and show, still don't we find, the world to be so serene and lovely when we can forget everything around us, and try to find out the natural peace around.
That's all for now guys, catch you guys when we all meet in "Another day in Paradise".